Friday, March 13, 2009
Life Begins At The Edge Of Your Comfort Zone.
What lies behind resistance Aka fear, is life and freedom.We all do it, its human nature. We make a choice to change and grow and as soon as we feel the least bit of resistance or fear, we back down and stay exactly where we are. Therfor we dont grow. I believe and so do many other spiritual teachers that our purpose here is to love, learn and grow, spiritualy, emotionaly and phychicly. And the way to do this is threw exspierance. Once we get past our comfort zone and push threw resistance. Not only do we grow as a person but we live. And life, the way it was intended can begin. I know this personaly to be true threw my own exsperiance of resistance and fear. Here is an example of how I overcame my fear and resistance when it came to this particular action. I wanted so badly to share with the world how the law of attraction and positive thinking can change your life. As a matter of fact, i have found, that is my purpose and I now devote my life to helping others achieve there wants and desires. And guide them to change there lives as I have mine. I have reached many people threw writing. I would say to myself if only i was not scared to get infront of a group of people all at once. That was not a option. Because my greatest of fears was to speek infront of large groups.Talk about way outside my comfort zone. so, you can imagine when i attended a class for spiritual growth and my teacher asked me to stand up infront of the class and go over my answers for a lesson we had done the week befor.I gave him a FIRM> NO WAY!! The thought of standing up in front of my class made my stomach sick. I began to shake, my ears began to ring. I shook my head and said to myself, I know hes not talking to me.Indeed he was. I stated to him that I couldn't, and later after class , embarrassed I took him aside and explained why i refused to speak. Another bad choice on my behalf because hes my life coach.What is the job of your life coach? Guide you threw your fears to help you grow is one of them. He said well we must work threw this and gave me two weeks to prepare a subject to speak about IN FRONT OF THE CLASS. The day came and I was scared. but I did it...I got up in front of the whole class and spoke about the benefits of article writing.When I was done I got a huge applause. What a relief.After class many people came up to me and thanked me for the helpful information. You know what, the hardest part was getting up there but once i pushed past that fear. the fear left and it felt very natural to be up there. I have since spoke in front of many groups and I wont lie and say I'm still not a little scared when I first take the platform, however, its getting easier and easier.This one moment has enabled me help many others threw seminars and i would have never had the courage to do it if I was not pushed by my coach. You two can overcome your fears. Sometimes we just need a extra push. I am a life coach and I still need guidance. I'm human as well. If god leads you to it, he will lead you threw it. Have a great weekend
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