POWER OF YOUR WORD BY JOY NICHOLE

Today in the lives of so many people around the globe I have found that 98% of us don’t know who we are or where we want to be in this lifetime. Our Thought are so clouded with false believes that were either told to us by our parents or loved once that we have been programmed liked robots to believe what others have told us over the years such as your no good, you’ll never amount to anything. I won’t love you if...The only way you’ll be successful is if you work hard and go to collage. So when we don’t attend collage we then start to believe we are stupid and so on. And as humans we are born to want to be loved and excepted by those we look up to. This is not your fault or your loved ones fault it to was the way they were programmed. As we were growing up our values and beliefs were burned into us as children and we have carried them into adulthood .Words are so powerful and they mold us. Here is an example of how words spoken can mold your personality. I have a client, she is 32 years old. She is a successful accountant, she is married To a Lawyer and They are looking forward to building a family. They live the American dream, beautiful home on the water. Nice cars. they appear on the outside to have everything. However, she is miserable. when I met her she was very shy and soft spoken and In our first meeting (well call her Lori) I asked Lori why she thought she was so unhappy. Do you know, she couldn’t tell me, I asked her where she saw herself in 5 years, she still could not answer asked he what she thought was making her unhappy? Still nothing So I made it simple. I asked Lori to go home and write down three hobbies and I would talk to her again next week. When we spoke the next week she brought her list of three things. On her list I asked her to pick the hobby, she currently didn’t do. She said Sing. I asked her if she sang in the car to the radio, she laughed, no. I asked why she said she had a awful voice. To make a long story short, when we got to the bottom of this, it all came down to one persons word. When she was a little girl, her mother came home from work and Lori was singing and laughing, you see that was Lori’s way as a child to express emotions and love. But Her mom was not feeling well after a long day at work, she wanted quiet. she loved Lori but when she couldn’t take the loud singing anymore, she yelled at Lori to stop singing and that her voice sounded horrible. Lori never sang again because she believed that her voice was bad and it bothered people. And guess what, She became shy....she believed she must surpress her emotions in order to be loved and accepted. no wonder she couldn’t tell me why she was unhappy. After working with Lori and changing those beliefs. Lori is able to express herself much easier and guess what? She has a beautiful voice. I had the pleasure of hearing her sing at her church recently. Although, i guided Lori to believe in herself it was up to her to take action and have faith in herself and became a happier person. Knowing who you are and what you want is the starting point to living a more fulfilled life. God and the universe want you to have everything the only thing stopping you, IS YOU.
If you want more information on how you can change your life starting today. you can contact me at Joy.nichole@hotmail.com and schedule an appointment or visit my web site.
Thank you and God bless.